Thread: Uuuuuuuugh!!!
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Old Sep 01, 2014, 08:46 PM
TorturedSoul92 TorturedSoul92 is offline
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So August was one of the most drama filled months for me. I've been in a relationship for 2.5 years & it came to an end last Thursday. My gf told me in the beginning of August that she needed space because our relationship had been less than perfect. She said that i had been distant & often neglected her for my friends for the past couple of months. I am guilty in that regard, but I thought that this came from a place of deep jealousy and insecurity, as we've both struggled with these things throughout the relationship. Coincidentally, she said she needed space after I found her texting another female about questionable things. Although I didn't agree with it, I tried to give her the space she needed. When I would refrain from texting or calling her, she would text me and say **** like "so we're really over," and "do you miss me at all?" Moving forward, things got worse and worse. We were off the break briefly, had sex, and then she asked me for $220 to fund her trip which she took this weekend. Idk if any of that is related but it seemed that way to me. Then, to make matters worse, she was hugged up with another girl in pictures on FB, but denies that they're in a relationship. I can't say that I've been the best girlfriend for every day we were together, but all of this is so extreme! It's almost as if she's deliberately trying to hurt me. Then she said that I am a narcissist and I never took up for her against my friends. So that warrants all your disrespect and hurting me relentlessly???? What's your take on this, guys? I'm trying not to let this thing get me down but it's hard. I haven't been eating much and my sleep schedule is changing. Plus, I can't afford to let this get in the way of school. It's just so much!

Anyways, thoughts, comments, anything?
Thanx for reading.
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