((((((((((Christina)))))))

Never, not once in all my 42 years, have I heard a WOMAN say "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." It is a total guy thing. They think it lets you down easy, but it's just being weaselly, IMHO.

Nevertheless, that he's invited you out of the country to be with him -- I think he's just deluding himself . Sounds like love to me too!

Good luck. Relationships are a bite. I gave them up years ago for that very reason. LOL

Love, Candy