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Originally Posted by growlithing
Yes. None at all. They won't make an effort to see me or invite me to anything. They barely made a effort when I shared rent with them. They were so harsh on me for having problems but so tolerant of my other friend for almost the same problems but she has an excuse because her mom is dead. Great. Didn't know that even though I don't have a mother who does anything remotely motherly to me beyond paying my rent and continuing the years of emotional abuse that's better than having no mom at all. **** them. It might seem that way to people with parents but it's not.
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Well Growli, I don't think those are the kind of people you want in your life anyway. I find that people in general are so poorly educated about abuse that it can make it hard to have a deep supportive relationship. I think that its best to look for someone who can be a little open about their own problems (eventually, as the case maybe), and who wants to empathize with and understand other people. I think that's the only shot you have at a real friendship IMO.
