How old is everyone who doesn't enjoy it? I'm just asking and find it interesting that I used to hate it when I was younger but now I enjoy giving it very much. It just seemed like it took forever and my mouth would get tired, etc. Now, I don't think my husband and I ever have sex without me giving him oral. He loves it but so do I. I think part of the problem (why you don't think you like it, and maybe you just don't) could be your experience level, your confidence level, and how aroused you are to begin with-I know a lot of us are on libido killing meds. I know except when my husband and I first met, we were like rabbits. I wasn't on meds but I got back on meds quickly and the sex died off fast but I was still just having sex with him to make him happy and satisfied the majority of our relationship. I think that's a mixture of meds, wrong diagnosis, and major self-esteem issues. For some reason, after I found out my diagnosis about a week ago and started Lamictal, my libido has dramatically increased-like we hadn't had sex for maybe 8 months and then all of a sudden 3-4 days ago, I can't get enough and not only that, my self-esteem issues went out the window and now I guess you could say I've become "exhibitionary."

Anyway, I think I'm getting off topic. I was just saying it would be interesting to know what caused it because it's the best either of us has ever had. But that brings me to experience. My husband and I both came to the relationship with a good 12-15 partners each and I had to work at making him ejaculate by just a blow job in the beginning. I had to learn what he liked and didn't like, pick up some new techniques here and there, like, this might sound funny but if it's the taste, get some creamy peanut butter and use that with your mouth. It works if you're inexperienced or if you don't like the taste actually and it will make him orgasm for sure. But make sure you're comfortable with it first so if it sounds hot to you it will probably be twice as hot to him.

If he was still hard after you thought he came, it was probably just preejaculate. Some guys can stay hard and most guys need 20 min to 1 hr for it to get hard again.

I'm surprised that some of my "awful" bipolar moments are actually becoming useful. Lol.

Anyway, if anyone wants anymore tips or has questions, you can private message me.
Credentials (lol): My husband and I both studied sex in college, we're very open about our sexuality and he has a BA in Psychology and I have a BS in Biology.

Recommended reading: The Guide to Getting It On (this was one of our textbooks)