Lawyers usually have free first consult where you need to ask those questions. Each state iz different. I had inheritance questions. Calif where I was married for 33 years is 50/50 & inheritance is yours UNLESS you put it into a joint account or use it for family....zky where I left the marriage to move to is a dowery state...so even though I refused to allow him on the deed to my farm he had to sign a quit claim for it to be fully mine

Kids & visitation rights...seriously a lawyer issue so it can be easily approved by the judge assuming there are no disaggrements

In your case..first thing is find a GOOD lawyer who won't sell you out to give everything to your H....it an get vicious....but have heard that first to file has an advantage....I would definitely go for it

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