When you marry someone who has financial issues, attitude issues& passive aggressive behavior, an inability for closeness...yet can be a nice person but very argumentative....there is no way of making the marriage work...as he claimed it was his personality & problem areas couldn't be changed....7 years away from him while trying to take care of the IRS mess he made with my inheritance that he didn't have the decency to tell me about nor the foreclosues on the house my name was still on....I finally figure out the cause of bis problems. A dx was impossible until a few years ago....all the things I said in our together therapy, they never grasped what his dx should have been that fits him 100%.

Too many battles too much anger..feeling i had no way out but by death...could never go back tk a life like that now that I'm learning what normal is even if there is a valid reason for his behavior there is no more toleration left in me after all those years

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