Wow ... I just heard something even worse.
A friend I told about this replied that she has gotten similar emails saying that people at work are talking behind her back about her weight! And it is sent anonymously. She didn't say if it came from the same site.
CJ is a big girl and so am I and I have issues with it. People have objected to my personality my whole life, but I would have major, major problems with someone who did that to me about my appearance!!!! It's a lot easier to say "it is what it is, like it or lump it" about one's personality.