This is yet another reason why I won't call myself BPD. or tell many people about BPD traits... How many times have you tried to tell someone about some situation, only to hear them say (or at least suggest) "but, you're BPD... so, obviously you didn't interpret that situation correctly"?

It's maddening.. Is it just me? Or does anyone else see this happening?

I don't have a problem admitting I have some BPD traits... and I talk about them... But, for someone else to make assumptions about what it all means? That is uncalled for. Get your own "F"ing life figured out... Let's talk about your mental health issues.... let's talk about your assumptions... and why you make them.... If we can do all those things.... then we'll talk about what you perceive to be my issues...

My point? Don't let nons bully you. They have their own issues... no matter how badly they may want to convince you otherwise.