Attraction is a lot more than a physical thing imo. I have met lots of people that are very attractive because of who they are and less what they look like. At your age you may find this less but that is because it takes time to develop as a person and for that to shine through. But my advice would be to work on being a beautiful person on the inside and accepting and being confident in yourself as it counts for more than you would think.

Losing your virginity is overrated really, and most people who lose it early wish they had waited (I know I did) so what you see as a problem at this point in your life, will probably be a blessing when you look back. Not that I imagine that helps you now though

I would say that in my experience men far from frown on a girl that still has her virginity and in many ways it is seen as a 'prize' to be the one to deflower a girl. What you have is of value and not something to be ashamed of so please don't think it or let anyone tell you any different. Do be so quick to disregard that or to want to get rid of it because of 'shame'. I am not saying all the "wait for the right time" etc but definitely make sure that someone respects you and is nice to you and don't just do it to get rid of your virginity sweetheart. There is nothing wrong with telling your girl friends that you want to find someone that makes you feel you want to sleep with them and not just give it up for the sake of it. If they are good friends then they will see this as a good thing.

So basically; having your virginity still = not worth worrying about. You as a person = worth more than you give yourself credit for

I hope that helped a bit x