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Originally Posted by Are you suffering?
My girlfriend did the exact same thing to me. She told me I needed to see someone/get help or she was walking away. I really had to weight my options and for the longest time afterwards I was resentful and even hated her for forcing me into doing something I didn't want to do. Now that I'm more stable and living a more productive life I see she did what she did because she loves me and wanted me to be healthy. I no longer resent/hate her.
It was a hard situation to be in and in the end I had to decide what was more important, the fun highs or my relationship.
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Good point. I think sometimes they love us and are unwilling to wait and see if we're going to put a belt around our neck or a gun to our head.
Although, at the time, the tough love thing really pisses us off!
In this case, if his fiancé has done any research at all, she knows the suicide rate for bipolar ll.