couples counseling was a godsend for me and the girlfriend. I understand it's hard being in a relationship with a bipolar person and there's times were I just don't care if I'm hurting her or not. It has helped me to try and understand her frustrations while giving us relationship techniques that help us with communication and compromising. It has been hard, but it seems to be helping us in the long run. So if your husband is willing to go through couples counseling with you, you should definitely give it a shot.