you know i have read about women doing it...i remember myself "giving up" to my ex-boyfriend (when we were together of course) and let him do it to me when i was tired, or when i didn`t REALLY feel like...but i would still cooperate.

i suppose that once you made ths choice and now you just see that you don`t like it anymore and that`t it.
the broblem with us women is that we areTOO NICE. those little "scarifice" we are making..i don`t know if men ever do anyhting they don`t feel like doing. but really i think we have to remember being OURSELVS and doing ONLY what we really want to do. especially in sex..i have learned the HARD way.