What a good idea...

the most productive suggestion someone else gave me was not quite a suggestion per se, it was an observation my best friend made about my personality..

I slowly let my new friend into my world, all my thoughts and feelings....previously when I would confide in someone the way I saw the world I would get labeled as '...weird..' '..psycho..' or '..over-analytical..'

But my friend Heather said, "Junerain, your personality is FASCINATING!!"

I felt so understood, so heard, so intrinsically valued.