I feel like you're saying men who are depressed are inherently "bad luck" and not worth developing a relationship with. This is a mental health website, with many men and women who are depressed and/or have a whole host of other issues; many of us seem to be in good relationships/marriages. I have depression... am I also a bad egg?

My last relationship was with a woman who was depressed; does that mean I should avoid women who have depression? Because y'know, there are some amazing women out there who just happened to be depressed, and I don't blame them - there's a lot to be depressed about in this world. xD