Honestly I never expected this to be as serious as it has turned out. I never expected to want to stick around by the time football season started. He was a random guy I messaged on a dating website. I only messaged him because I thought he was cute and he was obviously into Star Wars. I had no plans or expectations going in other than he was cute and I was not looking for anything long term. After a few dates it was apparent that he was very serious about me and wanted to have an exclusive relationship in fact he took it for granted. After our first sexual encounter I asked "So are you and I a thing now" and said somewhat indignantly "Well I should hope so". I consented to an exclusive relationship and I had plenty of free time and had little else going on. I suppose people are supposed to walk around with a plan and no what they want but I just kinda don't and that is how I ended up in this situation.