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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
I was not trying to argue or criticize. I do think it is great that you are getting in touch with therapists. I was merely trying to point out how something you do not see as a problem could be contributing to the issues that you have with friends and might actually be a problem. That is all. I was truly trying to help because I felt it was immensely helpful to me to have someone have the courage to tell me how my behavior was affecting others. My friends were all too afraid to hurt my feelings to tell me the truth. Being told how my behavior made me appear to others was very embarrassing at first and stung and I had a lot of shame around it. However, it was absolutely the best thing for me in the long so I could make the necessary changes to present myself in a way in real life that was actually more representative of who I am as a person.
If I thought Growlithing was just a horrible person who had no redeeming qualities, I would not bother to try to help her see how her behaviors detract from people being able to see the good qualities and the things she has to offer in a friendship. But, I will certainly refrain from posting from now on.
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Oh no. I know I am an *** and everyone hates me and no one can stand to be around me. I know that I would be a great person to be around if only blah blah blah something or an other. My mother has told me all of this before. I know that I push people away and I'm overly skeptical and critical.
But since we are sharing how people come off, you seem to only come post on my threads to create drama. You have a cocky holier than thou attitude for someone posting on a mental health website talking to other crazy loons. And you seem feel so prod of yourself for being able to tell someone probably half their age exactly whatms wrong with her,
Maybe I shouldn't say this. Maybe I drank about a 3rd of a bottle of Smirnoff because it's so hot outside I want to make the day move faster. But that's how you look. Thought I should tell you as a friend.
And I don't give a ****. I really don't. The thing about this that would bother you the most is that iMm ****ing smiling right now. I'm not offended. I'm not going to ever be offended at some bored person online trying to start drama because I feel bad for them because I know their lives are as boring as mine. So please don't censor yourself and continue telling me how much of a piece of **** I am. I get off on it.