A little more of my OWN perspective:
Cureav I first and foremost never use my PD as a crutch as I find so many others do with their own issues. I never said what to do about the N in others lives as that is left entirely up for them. I know I have hurt many people and have very easily shrugged it off without any bother to me. Does this mean this satisfies me?? Not at all, it only means this is who I am. I have a family member who is bipolar among other PDs. He lies, steals from family and other bad things continually. You see I am like him except I make you want to give things to me. You will believe that my intentions are good and feel positive about giving me what I ask. I steal from you with a smile and a statement not behind your back. Who is better? Probably not me but these are things I work very hard at not doing anymore. I do not intentionally make these things happen because usually they just do. My mind say this is ok when reality is anything but. I have issues and say it all the time, I am not who I am but who I have become. For me I do not go around intentionally hurting people, the big error is that I don't think like you. My reasoning is different but it is never "I am going to hurt someone for fun today and do it again and again". So my comment about Ns hurting others and not caring is true it's just not planned out like you took it, it just happens. I live in America and I have yet to find any great help so your not alone. And last, people dealing with Ns would be best if they were equipped to know who they were dealing with. Problem is some are too good to be known until it's too late.