I am a "gaming widow". He's also a sailor, so we go long periods of time apart. It's hard but I knew that when we got back together. I miss him even when he's home. Fortunately, I know he loves me & he's wonderful with my kids, who are not even his.

How long have you been together? I'm assuming he was more attentive? I think lots of marriages fall out of the honeymoon stage. What did you enjoy together before? Can you do some of those things again?

How about a marriage retreat? Mini vacation? Marriage counseling is def a good idea.

I hope it gets better. I kinda know what it's like.

Best,