I don't have advice per se- I can only tell you that I have thrown my life story out there at them and yeah, you either don't hear back, or they DON'T UNDERSTAND and think that they can "fix" you- all you need is love/affection.

No easy answers, but personally, I want someone who understands my disorders and maybe even has the same. I don't want someone who can't grasp how I feel.

Best wishes to you!!!