hmm so if we all are, I guess it answers my question...I wanted to know if it is worth reaching out to someone deemed 'bad' and appeal to their good side.

Hmm I am not convinced....Deep down I believe some ppl are just born to be bad....no matter what their up bringing, social factors, that person was always going to be bad.

So does that mean I give up on ppl that are close to me I deem to be 'bad'? Of course the two can exist together but I am talking about when bad totally out plays the bad.

I feel a lot of pain and see a lot of pain in ppl......all the pain around us makes me feel so distraught and anxious. I want to believe we are all good ppl but life has just dealt us a rough deal when someone is bad, and do all they know and have learned.

But what about ppl that get pleasure from evil things....like murder etc....do they have the capacity to be good and let good run their actions? Or is it a lost cause?