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Originally Posted by allme
hmm so if we all are, I guess it answers my question...I wanted to know if it is worth reaching out to someone deemed 'bad' and appeal to their good side.
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Probably not. It is very hard to break through that sort of thing. Whether they are born that way or not. We can't fix them especially if they don't want to be.
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So does that mean I give up on ppl that are close to me I deem to be 'bad'? Of course the two can exist together but I am talking about when bad totally out plays the bad.
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If you think they are going to cause you more trouble, absolutely. There is no reason why you should suffer.
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I feel a lot of pain and see a lot of pain in ppl......all the pain around us makes me feel so distraught and anxious. I want to believe we are all good ppl but life has just dealt us a rough deal when someone is bad, and do all they know and have learned.
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I know what you mean. I just don't want to think anyone can be truly evil. It disturbs me.
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But what about ppl that get pleasure from evil things....like murder etc....do they have the capacity to be good and let good run their actions? Or is it a lost cause?
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Maybe, look at the people in prison who find God and suddenly become new people.
Of course they could be faking it or a million other things.
I guess we'll probably never understand. The world just isn't built that way.