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Originally Posted by silver tree
Also have you tried connecting sex with more foreplay and tenderness and love? I am not accusing you of being a brute in the bedroom or anything lol But perhaps if the objective is not sex but more touching and intimacy (e'g touching and talking about the parts of each other's body you like or tickling etc.) it might open up a more sensual side to her ?
Sorry if that sounds stupid  x |
it doesn't sound stupid at all.
one of the reasons I'm so frustrated is that I have tried almost everything. I have tried doing what you mention above.... I've given up, because I can't make her like sex... and she just keeps repeating that she knows it's an issue, but she can't do anything about it. She's convinced herself that she already knows this to be true, so she has no reason to try to change.
It's frustrating, because it's all on me... she will take no responsibility.