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Originally Posted by shakespeare47
it doesn't sound stupid at all.
one of the reasons I'm so frustrated is that I have tried almost everything. I have tried doing what you mention above.... I've given up, because I can't make her like sex... and she just keeps repeating that she knows it's an issue, but she can't do anything about it. She's convinced herself that she already knows this to be true, so she has no reason to try to change.
It's frustrating, because it's all on me... she will take no responsibility.
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Firstly, maybe there is nothing YOU can do to make her like it? Like metioned, there may be deeper issues at hand here. Try not to take it personally, this probably has nothing at all to do with you but all about the issues she has.
No, it is not 'all on you'..thats just your perception.
I really do think therapy is the best way to go for both of you