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Originally Posted by shakespeare47
it doesn't sound stupid at all.
one of the reasons I'm so frustrated is that I have tried almost everything. I have tried doing what you mention above.... I've given up, because I can't make her like sex... and she just keeps repeating that she knows it's an issue, but she can't do anything about it. She's convinced herself that she already knows this to be true, so she has no reason to try to change.
It's frustrating, because it's all on me... she will take no responsibility.
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Having a part of your relationship missing will naturally cause a void in your relationship and that does need addressing imo. Maybe you do have to bite the bullet and throw it out there as a relationship ender? It is clearly NOT alright for you and if she does not take that seriously then perhaps forcing the issue is the only way? Not that I want your wife to feel hurt or anything, but more to wake her up to your own hurt x
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