I am sure you don't and I am not suggesting that you draw up papers or anything. What I am saying is use strong words to gain her attention and realise that this is something important to you and she is risking your future by disregarding that.

Let's face it, atm it is an issue that you feel you need to talk about and want resolving to be happy. What happens if in ten years it becomes a larger issue and cause of resentment for the reason you weren't happy for all these years? Things can build up over time and become the reason you have an affair and brake up your loving family or a loving relationship brakes down. I am not saying it will but maybe forcefully requesting this is dealt with now, could save that in the future? x