I've been through several funrals of suicide victims. I personally feel it's the same as most sudden deaths. I have been suicidal but have only actually been in serious harms way once. My husband on the other hand had countless attempts as a child and one as an adult.

The last funeral of sui I went to my father in law took me aside and told me he couldn't loses anyone else this way and begged/thanked me to do everything I can to take care of myself and his son. That is the one and only time he has every mentioned that he knows those thoughts are there for us.