she needs to hit rock bottom and u need to allow that. she doesnt have a chance at getting better unless she realizes it herself. u have to seperate urself and ur family from her as much as possible even though it hurts.

my mother and sister expect me to always be there for them bu they are never there for me so i just cut them off. if they call or text i ignore and erase. i cant let them keep doing it to me it keeps pushing me to SI and SUI.