He said that I should not be so upset over his cancelling one date that I would only have a point if that was a consistent pattern of behavior. I complained because he did not choose to spend his free time with me and he asked should he quit his job because that took time away from me. I told him I refused to be drawn into such a silly hypothetical and that we all had things that we had to do and things that we chose to do. And that what we chose to do illustrated out priorities. He said that I had created a silly made up world in my head in which he did not care about me and that he could not sway from that idea.