Im sorry if i made you feel unsafe when i called that blogger t a wack job. We had a person here on pc a few years back who seemed to be dealing with exactly such a t - the t would disappear, and the client didnt know what was happening. It was very hard on her, and on us. So then to read it from the t's perspective, after having lived it, however vicariously, from the client's side - yeah, i was judgmental. But that is the story behind it.