^that puts the entire accusation of my ego being the issue into perspective. You obviously identify with my wife. so, you are unable to see any of this from my point of view.

It would be pointless for me to try to persuade you that you're wrong about me. that I have been patient.. that I am a good husband (not perfect, but not totally at fault, either).

You've already made up your mind about me....

You need to realize that you are not my wife.. and I am not your husband....

but, I do thank you for being honest... not everyone would come back and admit what you've admitted.