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Originally Posted by shakespeare47
The bottom line is that I feel guilty for fantasizing about affairs... I'm also frustrated because I have tried to let my wife know that I wish things were different as far as sex was concerned... but, things haven't changed much..... I have even talked to a T before about this very issue..
So, I'm doing what I can to deal with the situation. I've started this thread.. and I plan on talking to my T about it again. I've never mentioned the desire to have an affair to my T.
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Well you have taken an important step in admitting these feelings and facing them for what they are. Some would of just had the affair.
Don't feel guilty about the fantasy, you obviously enjoy sex and will have this fantasy because your needs are not met. You haven't actually acted on it so so far you have done nothing wrong. So far you are making all the right noises.