I know EXACTLY how you feel. I have the same problem with my parents. They tell me, "Just go on a vacation and clear your head", "Just snap out of it", "Get married, that will fix everything".

For years, I used to do the same thing that you described - go to them and try to educate them about it. Guess what ? I have bookmarked this forum on my internet browser. It says, in bold text, "Borderline Personality Disorder" and "Bipolar Disorder". They use my computer everyday. They have not even been curious enough to ask me what that is, after I've explained my diagnoses to them many times !!! What does that tell you ? They don't get it, and never will.

So, I have finally figured out how to deal with the problem. Think about it ... they're 40 or 50 or 60 or more years old, and they grew up NOT believing in mental illness. Now, all of a sudden, we go up to them and tell them about our issues. They don't know the first thing about it ! They were brought up to believe that we can just "snap out of it" or that the movies and popular culture cause our problems. Old habits and mindsets die hard.

What's the smart way to deal with it ? DON'T go to them with your bipolar issues. Have you heard the expression "Love is not enough" ?. It may be true in this case. Even if your parents love you, they may not be able to understand you.

Hope this helps. I understand your frustration. I really strongly urge you to NOT seek help from your folks about mental health issues ... they just don't see eye to eye with us, and they likely never will. Don't waste your time and emotional energy. Tell this stuff to a therapist who IS able to understand you.