Thank you to you both. My partner knows exactly how I feel and I know I put him on edge the whole time we are together in public if an attractive woman walks past. I know that I am attractive but it's almost as if I'm trying to make sure I'm the most attractive so that he never wants to stray... my past history of men doesn't help as my father and step father have both been cheats. I guess I can't accept that not everyone does it. I feel like I can never trust.
The situation is so bad that we have been at party's and I literally feel like I have to watch my partner intensely as if there is an attractive women I would actually think if he went missing he was off with her! I'm literally going insane. I don't feel as bad with women that I know and trust like my friends I wouldn't care if my partner was around them.

Would councilling be able to stop this awful thing? X