I'd stop attending this hospice T sessions (go out since she's coming at your home). Great shes helping your H but for you it's obviously not working and that's an understatement :/ You could well be depressed, even Sui but that wouldn't give your H a right to know what you are talking about with your pDoc/T. Your H is controlling and should work on that.

Honestly, it's preposterous that any T would take his side... Is she a real T?