i would complain to the hospice group or, at the minimum, tell my h he can see the hospice t alone.
i'm married. my h doesn't have any control issues. while i do share things i say in therapy, i can't imagine him 'reporting on me' to my t unless i was in actual danger. i don't even think i have him listed as an emergency contact come to think of it.
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