Char-Lee, there's nothing cute of funny about what's happening to you. You're describing forced hypersexuality to the point of self-injury that's beyond your control and that can leave you really with guilt, shame and remorse.

If the problem is neurological -- coming from subtle changes in your brainwaves -- all the therapy in the world won't have much of an impact. That's why you need to see a neurologist. It's embarrassing to discuss these actions, but if you bring what you've written here and give it to the neurologist to read it can make it easier for you.

Changes in brain waves can occur due to some insult to the brain, like a concussion. Even a small concussion. We now know that several small head bumps can cause some lasting neurological problems. Fever can cause it. Many other things. And sometimes the reason is never found. An EEG test is usually used to help diagnosis. Maybe an MRI. As well as an exam by the doctor.

If it's neurological, medication can stop it from happening. Even then, psychotherapy may help you deal with any damage to your self-esteem and marriage that occurred as a result of these uncontrolled episodes.

Hang in there. I'm pretty sure you can recover from this with the proper medical help.