I'm sorry you're going through this and your T. didn't give you more guidance. Your T. may not have much experience with transference.
How long ago did you cut ties? It may take awhile like a mourning process. I have transference towards my T. About 2 months ago I wondered how I would get past all the feelings and treating her like my mom. It has gotten a lot better but it's still there. She told me it will come and go for awhile but that's also with me seeing her on a regular basis.
Perhaps the distance from the "medic" will help you along with time.