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Originally Posted by Kated1984
It's been 4 1/2 months. The thing is it felt like it was fading slightly a couple of months ago and then I saw her in passing from a distance, not in a situation to speak or anything but that was all it took for me to start thinking I neeeeed to see you. I'm thinking of excuses to see her but I can't, it would be stupid.
I hadn't thought of it like a grieving process but I guess it kind of is because I've cried lately on more than one occasion.
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It is definitely a grieving process. You lost her.
For me, when I went through something similar with a mentor, it took 2.5 years to finally get over it. And I only got over it when I finally realized I really could survive without him and that the things he gave me I could get from other people and places. And when that finally sank in, I found I could finally move on. But it took the help of my T and it sounds like yours doesn't know how to help you.