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Originally Posted by ~Christina
You have a big mess going on , Im sorry you do.
Maybe it is her Bipolar causing some of the behavior or maybe she is just doing it for the hell of it
Unless she wants help there is no way you force her. Has she ever been in treatment in the past for a extended amount of time? Seeing a Therapist and Doctor ? Take an medications for it ?
Even marriage counseling is only going to work if both people are wanting to be together and make changes that will allow for a loving relationship with communication and respect...
Regardless I think you could benefit from seeing a Therapist to help you sort out your situation.
I hope you both are taking into consideration how all this could/can be effecting your children. There wellbeing should be first and foremost.
I wish you luck on a very difficult situation. Welcome to PC you will find lots of support here  |
Thank for the reply she is taking medication , but only did therapy for about 6 sessions and then said it was to hard and was making no difference .
I just want her to be happy , hopefully with me , but happy first .
The kids will be ok , it's not ideal if we seperate . But our close friends and family are aware of the situation and will be there to help.
And while we live together we don't argue , we get on well when she lets us .
But there is no shouting or hate in the house , only an awkward kind of love .
It's really hard being around her , yet not really spending time with her and not being allowed to show her affection