Being misunderstood and accused of being rude when you're not just sucks. I am sorry this is happening to you.

Personally, I saw quite a few therapists before I found one with the right style and personality for me. Maybe don't give up on therapy in general, but give on this therapist as not suited for you.

ETA: I did have one guy who snapped at me and was quite abrasive in the first appointment. I had another female T who actually YELLED at me for telling my H how depressed I was when I was desperate for help. A couple just stared at me and didn't talk much, which was intolerable for me. It happens that there are therapists out there who are just not good therapists, or not well suited for all people, and that isn't about you. I hope you can see that this is this therapist's issue and not yours.