Welcome to Psych Central.

I'm also reconnecting with an "old flame", as you put it, although, not romantically... not even as a friend, at least initially, although, I think we're getting there... she's pretty unorthodox, to say the very least. I'm just trying to keep myself distanced, both physically and literally - the last thing I need is old "feelings" for her to return. It was easier when I hated her. She's married, and has a kid, too.

Anywho, I pretty much agree with everything TL said.