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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl
I'm hesitant.
She told me on the call I will probably never get a therapist as committed as her except one person she mentioned who is very sweet and patient.
Genuinely dont know how I feel. She says she loves me but I feel she doesnt like me at all, that shes keen to get rid.
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Hm. I don't know your T... but her saying you will "probably never get a therapist as committed as her..." would raise HUGE red flags for me. It sounds like something an abuser would say to keep you close. I'm sorry, I'm afraid it sounds harsh - and like I said, I don't know your T and wasn't there. It just would make me seriously think about finding someone else... anyone else.
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It just proves everyone who dislikes me is right. If you get to know me enough you will dislike me eventually too. I hope I dont wake up in the morning.
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(((hugs))) It's not true, and I don't believe that *you* are driving people away. Not at all. Certainly not Ts. Ts get PAID to deal with all of our crazy, awful, worst stuff. If they can't handle it, they are in the wrong profession. It's just unfortunate that there are SO many bad Ts out there.
Please be gentle with yourself, and take care of yourself tonight. Please? You deserve so much better than this T... seriously.