Red flag for sure!! RUN AWAY from this t.

When she sent you that alarm email the other day about the terrorist attack, I thought that was ridiculously out of hand. She should have known better! That was a horrible thing to do. Horribly irresponsible. That would have probably been a deal breaker for me... she doens't have any common sense. NONE.

Telling you'll never have a better T? That's... abusive. You do realize that's the kind of thing abusers tell their victims, right?

GET AWAY from her as quickly as possible. This isn't you, it's her.