She sounds way too oversensitive and very unprofessional. You have every right to use your therapy time in a way that you feel is most productive.

The survey thing bothers me a lot. It sounds like she is pressuring you to start scoring her differently!! I've heard of some therapists that have a score that is just between T and patient, to get a gauge of how the working relationship is going.

This is totally different--the clinic is keeping track, which means it SHOULD be anonymous!!! If I were you, continue to score as you wish. If you can, tell her she crossed an ethical boundary.