I'm sorry to hear about you not having a child. I don't know if I would be of any help for you on this. Well at least the others so far have given you great replies, I think. But with me, I have mourned a life that I don't have. I never got married and it's been a very long time since I had a good relationship. For a long time and up to now, it does not look good for me to ever have someone. But lately I have adjusted to it. It's like I've accepted it but I don't like it.
At least you have a husband. I assume that you love him and he loves you. That's more going for you than what quite a few other people (including me) can say for themselves. I'm sorry, I don't mean to hijack this thread.
At least, according to your age, you would still have plenty of time to have a child of your own. I've known lots of women that just got married that were older than you and had children. And I have known women who wanted to conceive and couldn't, but then later on, a miracle would happen. One woman that I knew of wanted to have a child and for a while she couldn't. She did just about everything she could do to make it happen. Then one day she met an old woman at her church, and the old woman gave her some "words of wisdom" about the situation. The woman trying to get pregnant took the old woman's advice and she ended up with two children! So maybe this could be something you could look into for yourself.
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