If I am in a relationship where I feel trapped I eat. Right now I am engaged to be married and I cannot stop eating. My fiance is a body builder and I was in good shape, however in 6 months I have gained 15 pounds. I always seem to lose weight when I end a relationship. How do I stop eating right now and start losing weight. I am seriously getting chunky. I am embarrased to go out. I don't want him to leave me. I don't know if i am unhappy because of my weight or because of the relationship. Any advice? Has anyone else experienced this?