Just a thought, for myself only:

Maybe my depression is a good thing? It means I am realistic and see the truth? That I am an emaciated ectomorph who will NEVER build muscles or have a thick head of hair.So "I" can be the one who makes others feel better about themselves....

Therefore...my life is condemned to:
chronic depression
social isolation
acute anxiety
no self esteem
self loathing

While seeing all others coast thru life...taking for granted the things I desperately need.....