You're blaming yourself again. You may have made some mistakes, but your husband has a lot to do with any problems that might cause hardship for your children.

Patty, I don't know if you were responding to me, or just used the Quick Reply, but if it was to me, I wasn't advising her to call the other woman. I already told her not to in previous posts. My last post was for women who might consider being the "other woman" and had nothing to do with this situation.