I certainly do not think your goal should be having others feel better about themselves because you're in a bad state. I know I don't feel better about myself if I see people in similar or worse situations than me. I get the frustration though kind of hard seeing a lot of reason for existance when experiencing the things in that list..while you see other people who can enjoy things, aren't suffering social isolation, don't have a lot of anxiety, but plenty of self esteem and lack of self loathing makes it difficult.