Well, I do know sometimes women fake orgasms...I'm by no means an expert on that, but...lol I know it's a thing. :P

If I may...I must wonder if your perception of sex for others is based upon your own negative experiences with it. That is perfectly, 100% understandable of course...if you've known something to be bad, it's difficult to understand why others enjoy it. Like spicy foods, in a way...my buddies often wonder why I would slather hot sauce on near *everything,* and I can't make them understand that I like it. Since they perceive spicy foods as painful or unenjoyable, it's an alien concept that I would willingly seek to make my own food hotter than the fires of Hell (it's true...you should see what I can do to a bottle of cayenne pepper flakes or, God forbid, sriracha sauce). It's an odd analogy, but do you see my point? Perception is based upon our own experiences. If you have known something as bad, that influences your perception of it.

Granted, there's nothing necessarily wrong with that...please don't think I'm judging your perception. I don't mean to do that in any way. It may, in the long run, be beneficial to see a therapist if you're not already, as they could help dissociate the negatives from sex,. But I don't mean to impose.

And...pardon the overactive protective instinct, but...please do be careful with the brands? Burns pose a significant risk of infection...I wouldn't want to see you hurt.

All of my best,
Harley